29 Sep 2026 · KBF

The Parental Order process in 23 short videos

Twenty-three short videos that show how each part of the Parental Order process works, arranged in the order you'll need them.

It's easier to understand a process when you can see it. You can read that the e-Bundle Hub builds your court bundle and still not know what that looks like in practice.

So we've made 23 short videos that show each part of the Parental Order process in PO Navigator, from "do I need a solicitor?" to the Cafcass visit. Most are under 30 seconds. The longest is under four minutes.

There are two kinds:

Every video plays properly on a phone. Click any title below to watch it. They're listed in the order you'll need them, so if you're partway through, skip to your stage.

Start here

Before you start

The first question is whether you should be doing this yourself at all.

If you only watch one of these, make it the six-month one.

Getting set up

Before the birth, and in country

A lot of the work that saves trouble later happens before you fly home. That includes your surrogate's consent, which has no legal effect if she signs it less than six weeks after the birth.

The forms

Building the court bundle

Filing, and what comes after

Where else to find them

All 23 are on the showcase page, grouped into the same stages as this article. Some clips also appear elsewhere on the site where they're relevant, including the home page, why we charge and the end of the free two-minute check.

Inside the app, each narrated walkthrough also sits on the page it explains. Look for the "Watch the tour" button in the corner of your dashboard, your Journey Timeline, the C51 guide and the filing-day step.

Most of the videos are free to watch. The e-Bundle Hub walkthrough needs full access, because the Hub itself does. The two-minute check and the C51 guide are free.


These videos use a demo family and show the software, not your case. They are not legal advice, and some cases do need a solicitor. The two-minute check will tell you if yours is one of them.

See also: how to apply for a Parental Order · the six-month deadline · all guides

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